There’s a moment in the brief exchange between John Cusack and the front-row woman when he backtracks on something she says preventing the interviewer from moving on. Responding to her question on who he would like to see play him in a film, the interviewer deflects from a fairly non-commital answer to ask if she herself is an actor. An eruption of her own laughter ensues. “Ah no, sure I’m just a mummy”. Nervous audience titter. Moving on…
“But you’re not though, are you?”, Cusack cuts in. “You’re not just a Mom”.
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She obligingly offers a quick run-through of the cliched litany of more superficial roles being a mother embodies. Truth bending wizardry, poker-face maintenance, ‘parenting’ guru seeking missile manufacturing, baby-led led gagging reflex suffering, and so on. Nothing new in the rain-checking nor the predictable head-pat towards our ordinary heroes routine.
“Right. I think people spend too much time talking about what they’re not rather than what they are”, Cusack matter-of-factly tails off with a statement so banal on one hand, yet assembled in a way that’s not usually put. A sneaky shoulder-shrug prising open our pat take on things to see how they fall down. One that feels consistent with his knack for convincing off-kilter but on-the-nose pop philosophy of any of the outliers he has played.
And there it is. The moment I manage to steady the giddiness accelerating over days leading up to this evening from sliding into woozy dissonance from seeing him feet in front. Batting chat back and forth with an ordinariness shot through with an easy going passion for what matters. And what matters for many are the low-watt lights along our life’s arc that re-affirm the status of seemingly small things without blinding us with the certainty of big dreams.
In a world of heady obsession with status in the work place, our place along the firmament of social media, embarking on the Next Big Goal, the ephemeral nature of ‘success’, ordinariness is losing its necessary allure. In fact, I’m so ordinary, all that’s missing in this navel led paragraph is a momentary pause to break through the fourth wall.
Oh there you are.
This John Cusack fella *points towards stage*, he thinks he is just an actor-activist guy. Nothing special. Sure, his is a life less ordinary; he knows it, we know it. He knows that we know that he knows it. But it hasn’t eroded his capacity to inhabit the regular guy with all the attendant dissections of his interior world and occasional flirtations with stretches to the perimeters of it. Relying as they do on the instruments of self-indulgence, wonky optimism, flawed curiosity, and mentoring from music.
*Turns back to the stage*
Sinn Fein photobombs the professional photo (courtesty of twitter)
My amatuer photo bombs spectacularly
He is not just the man I might’ve climbed over Dylan Moran to get to. Nor just an actor with enduring appeal. I recognise his characters now as those flickering gangway lights running along my own fanciful flights to cop-on and back over the years. Where lack of certainty is still direction, and being a fugitive from maturity is all part of the cycle. And it matters more what Bruce thinks than your line-manager. Uplifted, I’m happy to break off from the queue lining up to meet him. To contentedly smile out the door and sing my way back to my frequently out-of-tune but thoroughly satisfying unsatisfactory life.
Seriously, where am I to go now for my fix of John Cusack/Catastrophe/Blue Nile love and Bono hate?! The Bono hate is the best!
Can you believe I got within ASBO breaking distance of Cusack there and he escaped uninjured? I’d read his house was broken into by a stalker and I thought damn, why does someone always get there before me. I bet I couldn’t get as far as Dalkey without getting murderous urges. I’m going to have to try it. See ya on Six One News in the top right-hand corner of the screen behind Dobbo.
You lucky thing! I assume you’ll be pixelated on the news right?
In my best Jackie O shades like all the best tax avoiding rawk star criminals. Yeah, I took the 2nd snap above. THAT’S how close, and none of you fuckers got over excited, except for me. You can see the tremor of thrills in my lack of focus.
You had the chance to have JC chained to a concrete block in your specially-soundproofed shed (B&Q’s finest) and you didn’t take it?
I know. I don’t know what came over me. Oh, I do – surreal giddiness. I just couldn’t stop pissing myself laughing. Not an ideal substitute for getting on in life. He had a lucky escape.